Everyone knows that tortured bridesmaids stick together, and there are enough of those unwanted, worn once dresses to costume a whole horror movie! Spare your friends and come up with a creative way to get the look you want without having your bridal party shooting you daggers as you walk down the aisle. There are many ways to make everyone happy. Pick 2 or 3 styles and allow your bridesmaids to choose their favourite, or go a step further and pick a colour, and then let attendants pick their own style within that colour. Even shoes can be contentious. Try to find middle ground on shoe choice. We all have had to endure uncomfortable shoes and the blisters that delivered the daily reminder of the discomfort!